Black Ink Chicago's @Bishopdon_9 in the Upcoming Issue of Urban Grandstand Digital

We're thrilled to announce that Bishop Don of 9Mag & Black Ink Crew: Chicago will be hitting the upcoming issue of Urban Grandstand Digital Magazine. We're happy to have connected with Don, as he not only talks about Season 3 of the hit reality series [which returned to VH1 May 24, 2017], but also the impact he continues to make within the urban communities of Chicago, how the untimely death of his sister has altered the way he handles family problems, and the growth of his amazing brand, which now includes the launch of his new line of cigars. 

We're only a few weeks away from the release of the new issue of Urban Grandstand Digital Magazine, so definitely be on the lookout for that! 

Check out the exclusive trailer for Season 3 of Black Ink Crew: Chicago, below!

[ARCHIVE][FEATURE] MILYN JENSEN: MISUNDERSTOOD

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This is probably one of the best interviews we’ve had the blessing of doing here at Urban Grandstand Digital. Milyn Jensen is a name the world knows very well. Unfortunately, it’s not necessarily for the things she wants to be known for, or the things we should know her for. Without naming specifics, anyone who has googled her name sees the amount of negativity that surfaces. It’s pretty sad that as media, given the responsibility that those in the media have taken upon themselves, they opt to reinforce the stereotypes and negativity that have all become so prevalent. Now that’s not to say that the celebrity or subject is not at fault for some public perception; yet, there’s still a responsibility from media to decipher what is to be covered, showcased, and/or broadcast, and what isn’t. Nevertheless, we have Milyn Jensen, and it’s definitely a treat for us, and hopefully for you. In this feature, we opt to focus solely on her dreams, aspirations, and direction she’s looking to go following her ending to Bad Girls’ Club. There’s quite a bit to know about Milyn. For starters, she was a nursing student, and has basically completed all but her externship. So she’s definitely far from what people may have thought about her. She’s got some other things jumping off that are taking her in the direction of following her passion, and at the end of the day, following our passion is all we want! With this feature, we want the world to see that she truly just been Misunderstood all this time. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: I appreciate you taking the time this evening to chat. I know we through this together fairly quickly…

Milyn Jensen: Oh thank you

Urban Grandstand Digital: So talk to me about the things you have going on. Obviously, I think there’s so much out there that isn’t really what should be covered so to speak. People should be getting to know you right now, and the different facets. You’re obviously a nursing student. 

Milyn Jensen: I mean, I’m really known from the reality show, so discussing it is not an issue or anything. As far as what I’m doing, I’m basically at a point where if it happens, it happens, and if it doesn’t, then it just doesn’t. I know people that when they get to do what I’ve done, they choose to stick with it, like reality shows. They want to keep going with it and doing more reality shows. I did not sign up for this, and I did not audition. TV was not anything I thought about doing. Now I just feel like if more opportunities keep falling into my lap, then I’ll keep doing it.

Urban Grandstand Digital: So not seeking it, how does a nursing student end up doing the Bad Girls Club?

Milyn Jensen: I guess I’ve always just had a really big personality. I talk a lot. Honestly, I think I’m really shy. I never liked speaking in front of class, I get anxiety in large groups. People just have always thought I was someone big. The energy and vibe I give off is just who I am. I don’t watch reality tv, so when they asked me to do it, I was like “I don’t know”. My mom was saying to do it, and she thought I would be good for TV. Apparently it worked. 

Urban Grandstand digital: Are there any regrets in the show?

Milyn Jensen: I wouldn’t say I regret doing the show. I just hate the name attachment. People hear Bad Girls’ Club, and they frown. I had friends who saw it, and they were like oh my god, it’s fighting. Going into the house, it was completely different. The girls were timid. I’m a free spirit and having fun. It was really my life, but just with cameras. I was comfortable. So I don’t regret filming. I do regret the production crew. That’s my only issue. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: So given your goals, and the fact you say you don’t watch reality TV, would you do more?

Milyn Jensen: I feel like I would do it again. It was fun and normal for me. It was natural. People would think it was uncomfortable, but i forgot the camera was there. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: So where do you go now? I realize you want to get into more serious acting, so how do you get there coming from Bad Girls Club?

Milyn Jensen: Well I had my first audition. I was really excited because my dream is to do a horror film. I’m obsessed with doing a scary movie. That’s what I really want to do. I didn’t get the part, but the experience of auditioning was great. I never had acting lessons, so to just go in and do an audition was great. They said for no training I actually did a good job. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: So given your desire to really pursue acting, do you have any plan to take advantage of acting lessons or get a coach?

Milyn Jensen: I do, but, I know so many people in the industry. I went to lunch with a friend of mine who is on that acting side, but more with producing and directing. She told me about an acting seminar her friend had, and she was breaking it down for me. I told her about my audition, and she gave me some advice on what to do next time. She explained in the seminar, they basically say people waste money in those classes when it’s really about being in touch with your inner feelings. That’s what will sell. They want it to be real and you become the actual character. So I don’t know if I really want to waste my money on it.

Urban Grandstand Digital: So will you be doing auditions regularly? What are your plans in terms of progressing?

Milyn Jensen: I hope so. I mean, I’m searching for more roles that catch me and get me interested. Where I know I can become that person in the audition. It’s not like I have twenty auditions. If I can get one per week, that’s where I’m at. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: What is your ultimate role?

Milyn Jensen: The scary movie things. I thought the audition I did was perfect. The girl was raped, and her parents were super malicious. It was the opposite of me. I said it was perfect, and I get killed. I want to live til’ the last second of the movie and then get brutally murdered [laughing]

Urban Grandstand Digital: I think it’s good that you are spreading yourself round and doing different things. I’ve never been a fan of complacency, so I think it’s good that you’re doing different things and not being complacent. It definitely gives you something to fall back on. You don’t want to just get stuck on one thing

Milyn Jensen: Right

Urban Grandstand Digital: So are you pretty much done with nursing?

Milyn Jensen: I did feel like I wanted to go back. All I had to do was my externship. I’m all over the place, so it’s a little difficult. I’m only twenty-six, so I can aways go back. When I turn thirty, if I’m still absolutely dry, then I can always go back. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: It’s a good outlook though. You do always have that option. So you’re also doing some event hosting. Talk to me about that. 

Milyn Jensen: I’ve just hosted parties, and with that, they always want me to get on the mic. I’m just a face. You’re just supposed to look at me [laughing]. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: I’ve really enjoyed talking to you this evening. You seem like a really cool person.

Milyn Jensen: I am [laughing]..

Urban Grandstand Digital: But you know what I mean though. In researching and whatnot, there’s so much negativity out there. You almost don’t really know what to think. Talking to you, listening to your dreams, and things you’re working on, it’s clear that you’re really a cool person. Is there anything else that you really want us to get out there?

Milyn Jensen: I think everything is pretty much out there [laughing]. There’s no secrets with me. Not even secrets, but like you said, you research, and of course there’s things that are totally false. No one’s ever going to know what’s really me, and at the end of the day, I don’t really care what people think because it doesn’t affect my happiness. So it’s like, sorry about my language, and if you want to believe it, you do, and if not, you don’t. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: Well what sets us apart here is what we cover and how we cover it. Most media cover the negativity and the crazy stuff. We really want to change the face of media. There’s such a bad name because of the paparazzi, and what gets covered, and contrary to popular belief, the average person doesn’t care about all of that. People just care about the talent, and the person and thats what we want to push. 

[REALITY][ON THE SCREEN] Margeaux: Spreading Her Wings

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We all got to know Margeaux Simms through her role on VH1’s Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta. As we all learned throughout the past season, there’s much more to Margeaux than the typical drama and ruckus often displayed on the show. Margeaux is a budding talent in music, and she had the opportunity this past season of display her new single, “Start a War”, via the show. Since showcasing that single to the world, Margeaux has since put together a steady stream of music, and is now plotting the release of her new EP. We took a few moments to talk with Margeaux about her music career, which actually has span nearly a decade now, and her new EP, her time on Love & Hip Hop: Atlanta, and all the things she has happening throughout the next year. Through this piece, you'll see just how Margeaux is spreading her wings in her career, and how she's soaring because of it. 

UG Digital Mag: I have to thank you so much for your time today. It’s people like you who are allowing me to follow my dream of journalism. 

Margeaux Simms: Awesome. Thank you for having me. 

UG Digital Mag: This year has proven to be amazing for you. Congrats on the success of everything you have going on. 

Margeaux Simms: Thank you so much. 

UG Digital Mag: What has it been like for you to truly be pursuing your music? People really neglected the fact that you were doing music?

Margeaux Simms: I’ve always been an artist, even prior to the show. I never talked about it on the show because it didn’t seem like the show promoted music so much. I felt like if it happened naturally, or if people googled me, people would find out. I had stuff out, and different projects, so it worked out. I’m glad the people who watched saw it and I was able to be introduced to them. I just happened to be on the show. I never wanted it to be like I was a reality star who suddenly started doing music. I think we see a lot of that. I did not want to cram it down anyone’s throats. 

UG Digital Mag: I think it’s good though. Thinking of the premise of the show, I’ve always felt as though that avenue should be there to pursue music. You’re one of the only ones I’ve seen capitalize off the situation in the right way. 

Margeaux Simms: Well thank you. I thought it was supposed to be about that, but that’s moreso just the title, and you get more of the love and drama. A lot of people like that, but when you have a small fanbase and you get on a bigger platform, you want it to happen organically. 

UG Digital Mag: Of course, everyone who has heard “Start a War” is looking for new music. It was clear that you were in acomfort zone and it was something you loved. People got that sense, and I know you have the new single, “Girl on the Left”. Can you talk a little about that?

Margeaux Simms: Yes. I waited on releasing it because with “Start a War”, people loved the song. I just kinda put it out. It was one out of many, and then I decided to do it on the show. I decided to put out singles because I had all these ideas for videos for each song. I’m excited for people to finally see it. 

UG Digital Mag: I think it’s a good strategy, putting out singles, but I think you’ll be that difference with people wanting to purchase a full album. I think people will love your music because of how different it is. 

Margeaux Simms: Thank you. I hope it does well. I hope people can take away from it whatever they want, and not over think it. I want them to be inspired to do their own thing. Everything you want to know about me, I put in my music. I rarely hold back anything. 

UG Digital Mag: When are you looking to release it?

Margeaux Simms: We’re looking at April for “Girl on the Left”. We keep pushing it back because I’ll do more singles, then want to do more videos. I don’t want to rush it. Putting out an EP for me is like getting a tattoo. It has to be perfect. Once it’s there, you can’t take it back. I want to feel good about it in my soul. 

UG Digital Mag: Do you feel like Love & Hip Hop was helpful in you getting your music out?

Margeaux Simms: It was a little helpful. I’ve met other cool music bloggers as a result, and they come up and talk about the music more than the drama. I can’t leave my house in New York without people approaching me, and it’s all about the music, which is good. In the marketplace, it’s more about being able to push what you do and get away from the story you weren’t able to tell. It’s reality TV, and there’s a part that’s not reality, yet, it’s trying to hold you to the character you are on the show. No on understands the psychology of it unless they do a show. When you think about it, it’s really deep psychology. I feel like reality TV is made up of genius producers who put this together the way they can market and manipulate the craft. I’ve learned a lot in business about how you can use that for yourself. 

UG Digital Mag: So let’s talk House of Margeaux (HOFM)!

Margeaux Simms: I studied design when I was in school, and I’ve always wanted to blend with fashion. Design is such an art form, and something has to give. I wanted to do that, and with music, doing my songs, and video treatments, I wanted all these amazing clothes in the videos that sometimes I couldn’t afford. I said I’ll just make what I see in my head. That’s how it came about. Then I decided to make a cool merchandise line for the music. I wanted people to know it’s really coming from me. I’m not just an artist on a big machine and now I have merchandise being sold to you. I wanted it to be organized, and I wanted people to know when they get into my music, they are also getting merchandise from me that I spent time to create and put together. HOFM is the merchandise. I showed at fashion week last year, but I just showed the merch line. I wanted it to be merchandise that people really wanted and can really get into. One day I’ll do a full collection out of it. I had more ideas I started to make while I was on the show, and then people started to ask for certain pieces. From there, I put them on the site and it took a life of it’s own. 

UG Digital Mag: I believe it makes your brand that much better because you’re so hands on and involved. It will do so well for you because of that. 

Margeaux Simms: You have to be involved, and be inspired. I have to be hands on. 

UG Digital Mag: What are your plans over the next year?

Margeaux Simms: For me, the next few singles will be released. I’ll drop the EP. I’ll be performing in Toronto and New York. I’ll also be going to Paris in August. I’ll be in New York working, and also put some things together for Fashion Week. That’s pretty much it. 

UG Digital Mag: I think it’s great that you’re involved in so much. Even with your involvement in SXSW. 

Margeaux Simms: Yes, it’s a huge platform. I’ve always wanted to be part of that. Meeting the other musicians and artists, and connecting with them is a great thing. The showcase I’m a part of is The Color Agent. It’s a great thing to see. 

UG Digital Mag: I’m glad you also mention being from Toronto. We’re seeing so many more people from there. 

Margeaux Simms: Growing up, I’d always hear people say there were black people in Canada, and we’d always laugh. We’d forget there are black people all over the world. We all come from the same places. There’s a lot of culture there. I can’t wait to perform there. 

UG Digital Mag: What are you most proud of about the way things have gone?

Margeaux Simms: I’m most proud of being able to show who I am, and for people to see that I’m an artist. I’ll always be an artist. I’m proud of fighting for my integrity. I can sleep at night. There’s nothing I did that I am ashamed of.

UG Digital Mag: Any final comments at all?

Margeaux Simms: I would say to read more. Seek the people you like and why you like them. Don’t believe everything you see on television. Be smarter, and don’t accept what’s given to you. Be your own leader and don’t take things for face value. Be your own individual. 

[FEATURES][REALITY] Cyrene Tankard: In a World of Her Own

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Gracing the cover of this new issue of UG Digital Mag is none other the beautiful and talented reality star, Cyrene Tankard. Having the opportunity of speaking with Cyrene is definitely a blessing for us, and has resulted in a great story. 

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Through this piece, the world will gain a first-hand glimpse at her newfound independence. Watching the first two seasons of the hit BravoTV reality show, Thicker Than Water, we watch Cyrene maneuver through her final years of high school, and we've seen her mature into a responsible adult. 

Now, with the airing of Season 3, she's all grown up and on her own, attending Howard University. She talks openly with us about that transition into adulthood, how the show and her newfound celebrity status has affected her, the many things she has going on, and the very thing that makes her the most proud in her life right now. Given the overall focus of positivity here at UG Digital, Cyrene is perfect for this issue, and we're excited to present this exclusive to you!

UG Digital Mag: Thank you so much for this opportunity. It’s awesome to be able to connect, and get things out there in terms of what you have going on. 

Cyrene Tankard: Thank you. I appreciate it. 

UG Digital Mag: There’s so many people who can appreciate how you were portrayed with the show. Moreso, the relationships you have with family, and the that it’s not about money, and riches, but more about the love, and the lengths you all go through to show your love for each other. How important was it for you to be a part of this show and the movement that it represents?

Cyrene Tankard: The importance has grown for me. I was in high school when season one started, and I just wanted to get through high school. Once season two came along, and then having just wrapped up season three, I feel like I have a really amazing opportunity to influence young girls and guys, and older women and men, about the importance of family, and the roles they play within their own families. 

UG Digital Mag: There was so much shown, and it all really revolved around family. I know that’s what people really appreciate about the show. 

Cyrene Tankard: One thing that gets me excited and lets me know I’m on the right path is when people of all races and backgrounds come and say this helped me, or that changed my life, or I can really rate to this. I was never going to talk to this family member again, but because you addressed this, it gives me a reason and a positive example. That’s what warms my heart. 

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UG Digital Mag: So talk about the new season of Thicker Than Water!

Cyrene Tankard: There’s a lot to look forward to. We have a new addition to the Tankard family. We get to look at my life at Howard University, and my roll as I grow into a young woman, and how I’m maturing. You'll see how Marcus and Tish are with living in the house with their sub-family. You have Brooklyn with her newfound music career, and Britney is still figuring life out. There’s many different dynamics and angles, and there will be no moments of boredom. I can promise you that. 

UG Digital Mag: Reality television has truly taken over, and obviously there’s many options, but more people are looking for that positivity that your family offers. I believe you all brought something to the table that isn’t found in many places. 

Cyrene Tankard: That’s one of the things we take pride in, and we really pray about it as a family. Usually before and after our work days we pray as a family, and make sure everyone is level-headed and good. We want to continue to put that out there, and encourage positivity and love through whatever challenges that come up. 

UG Digital Mag: Bringing the focus back to you, how have you been able to maintain and balance the newfound celebrity that has come as a result of the show, and now being out of the house and on your own?

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Cyrene Tankard: Funny thing about it is that it's just now hitting me, and it continues daily. It’s just a change of mentality. I feel like that change of mentality came with maturity, and it came with the exposure that the television show has given me. Before, I may not have viewed things a certain way, or may not have viewed it as an opportunity. Now I feel like I have to seize every moment, or keep moving, progressing, and getting better. I take this whole opportunity as a way to get better and grow. It’s a platform. It’s like having a super-power, and it can be used for good or evil. I think this is God’s gift to me, and I can give it back to the world as I see it, and can matriculate and grow from “celebrity”, or influence. I have a responsibility to positively influence others. I look at it like I have their lives in my hands, and this is an important and critical time for me to hone in, and get right emotionally so that anything I give off can help them. I don’t want to demean others and influence anyone in a negative way. 

UG Digital Mag: In what ways have you been able to use your celebrity to give back to other girls coming up, or people in general?

Cyrene Tankard: It takes my by surprise every time I go out, or I may be speaking on a panel or at an event. People may come up to me, or even on social media, they’ll say I’ve influenced them, or they look up to me. I’m able to speak life into their lives, speak positive things to them and let them know; I’m not the only one who can be a go-getter and make a difference. For me, it’s about spreading the love, and lifting others. That’s what matters most to me. I want people to know that because many times, people feel out of touch with celebrities. I’m literally a normal person who happens to be in television, that’s it (laughing). That’s really it. I tell people I love them the same way they love me. They give me motivation the same way I give them motivation. They are the reason I am what I am. 

UG Digital Mag: A lot of celebrities lose that sense of reality though. It’s cool to speak to someone like yourself. Anytime I’ve seen you involved with things, you seem to have that sense of reality. 

Cyrene Tankard: I’ve even had people on campus come up for pictures, or ask for advice. This is really me. I love you just as much as you love me. As far as others who lose touch, or looking at those celebrities I’ve formed a relationship with, my favorite would have to be Big Sean. He was super nice, laid back, and super chill. He made me feel super included, and it was all love. When I reach that level, that’s what I want to be. I want to leave people with a feeling. I would love to give money, but it’s nothing better than leaving people with that feeling, or an experience. They’ll remember that for a long time. 

UG Digital Mag: What other goals and aspirations do you have outside of television?

Cyrene Tankard: I have a lot, and am in the process of doing a few things now. I’ve been dabbling in the modeling scene. I’m starting a blog soon, and we have some things going on with beauty and health. I actually have Ulcerative Colitis, so I’m really big about the whole health initiative and taking care of your body. We also have some things with fashion…

UG Digital Mag: I’m glad you mention fashion because I know you recently did some things with Women in Fashion...

Cyrene Tankard: Yea, I went out to New York and did a red carpet and soiree for Women in Fashion & Film. There were awesome people there. There were actresses, designers, and models. It was a great networking opportunity, and a great place to be around great people. No one was too good to talk to anyone. The industry is so small, and you start seeing the same faces everywhere you go. I think it’s another opportunity to strengthen relationships. My thing is how can we all win? What can I do for you? What connections do I have that you need, or vice versa? How are you innovative in a way that I’m not? I just look forward to learning from people, and it doesn’t matter where they are in life. I feel like you can learn something from everyone. 

UG Digital Mag: What can we look out for in the near future aside from the show?

Cyrene Tankard: Definitely my blog, and I’ll make a lot of announcements via Instagram. I don’t want to give away too much right now, but I will be announcing things there. Look forward to a lot. 

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UG Digital Mag: As I said, I think it’s great what you’re doing, and people are looking forward to seeing what you have going on. Obviously, you were one of the youngest in the family, and you were like the baby. Now that you’ve come into your own, it’s good to see you’re going to school. I’m so huge on school, so I give kudos for that alone. A lot of people your age come into this type of success, and they opt not to go because they feel like they’ve made it. 

Cyrene Tankard: Let me not lie to you. My parents were definitely big influences when it comes to going to school. There was definitely a time when I was like maybe not, but now I’m know I have to stay on track.

UG Digital Mag: But in the end, you still could have chosen not to go. There was clearly as piece of you that wanted to go. 

Cyrene Tankard: Definitely! The college experience has been awesome for me. I’ve learned so much. I’ve actually learned how to learn (laughing). Some people just don’t know how, but you have to know how to educate yourself. I’ve become a really big reader; my intellect and vocabulary has grown. That’s something I would push kids to do. That’s an initiative I want to get on as well. You have to find something you connect with and read about it. It improves your mind, vocabulary, and it gives you more to talk about. It makes you a person of variety. 

UG Digital Mag: That’s so true, and obviously, you want a degree, but it’s so much bigger than a degree. It’s about learning how to network, and building relationships. People aspire to get to the level you’re at, but things may bot jump off as quickly. They need to be in a position where they can meet others and network and build relationships, and the reality is college gives you that. You meet so many different types of people. 

Cyrene Tankard: Right, so that has been my take away. Learning how to deal with people from different backgrounds, with different personalities, and if different origins. That’s beautiful to me. 

UG Digital Mag: What are you most proud of about your path, or where you are now, versus where you started?

Cyrene Tankard: My confidence has grown tremendously. My mentality has grown and matured like I never would have expected, especially at this age. Between having more confidence, and the experiences I’ve had, and landing my job at the production company that produces our show, that has been a dope experience. Learning how to connect with people and network, I’m proud of myself for that. I can be closed off at times. Opening up has been big for me. That’s not a tangible trophy, but it has gotten me a lot further in life. 

UG Digital Mag: In reality that is huge. I was the same way, and at times can still be that way, so I can relate. Even as much as I run my mouth now, there’s still times where I don’t want to be bothered with certain things. So I get it. 

Cyrene Tankard: Having other people see my progression, I love it. That, to me, is so big, and it makes me happy. 

UG Digital Mag: As I said, I see the growth, and there’s so many who are proud of your direction. There’s so much you’ve been able to do, and people you’ve been able to help. What final comments do you have?

Cyrene Tankard: I just want to encourage everyone to keep pushing. These are trying times, and with so many things going on, I just want to encourage everyone. Maximize on the good things happening. Instead of asking people what’s wrong, as what’s right. It’s so easy to get down and stay down, so let’s change the motion. Let’s change society, and it starts with just one of us talking about it. Word of mouth is powerful, and I believe in the power of the mouth. I say what’s right today. Life can be great. Customize your experience. 

[FEATURES] [REALITY] Chante Moore: Moore is Moore

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We’ve seen more of Chante Moore in the past year than ever before. Obviously, much of that is because of her involvement in the Los Angeles installment of R&B Divas, but she’s also riding high on the success of her latest musical offering, “Moore is More”. Released via Shanachie Records, the album has faired well among Chante’s steadily-growing fanbase, and R&B fans alike. We recently had an opportunity to speak with Chante regarding the new release, her foray into reality television and involvement in R&B Divas, and just what fans can expect when they see her here in Cleveland with Charlie Wilson.

Urban Grandstand: Thank you so much for taking the time out this afternoon. Obviously, you’re here in Cleveland soon. What is your connection here, having performed in the city so many times?

Chante Moore: It’s always good, which I guess is why they always ask me to come back.

Urban Grandstand: Your new album; kudos to you. I’m loving it, and can really appreciate the maturity that you bring to the table, especially with “Cry Me A River”. How was it putting that together?

Chante Moore: I love it. Barbara Streisand is one of my favorite people in the whole world, and that was one of my favorite renditions that she did, which was why I chose the song. It’s paying homage to her, but it also sits with the theme of the record, which is having ups and downs. You have to finally get to a point where you say “I did It”, and go ahead and cry me a river. I’ve cried one over you already.

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Urban Grandstand: What has been your favorite tune, or what have you gotten the biggest buzz from with this new album?

Chante Moore: Well, we’re only on the second single. “I Want You” is a very special song. I sang it around the world before it was even recorded. We all have a relationship with the Lord and want to please him. That’s what the song is about. Having love horizontaly, and knowing most of all, I want Jesus.

Urban Grandstand: It’s great that it was also feature of the Divas of LA. I, as well as a lot of others, can really appreciate your role on the series. I think there’s just a lot of ruckus that you see in the show, and it goes against expectations of how you think people will take advantage of the opportunity. Not necessarily with this particular franchise, but just reality shows in general. You presented yourself in a good light. What was the biggest thing you wanted to get out of it?

Chante Moore: Well it is to be afraid of, especially if the integrity of the cast, or crew, is not in the place that it should be.  I think the producers displayed us exactly as we were, and in the end, it all settled out to a great place. We got to do the Divalogues and talk about who we really were, and that’s the most important part. We’re triumphant. There’s going to be trials no matter what you do. It’s not always going to be smooth sailing, but I’m happy we all got more exposure musically, and people realize who we are and get more of a glimpse of who we are as people and not just as musicians.

Urban Grandstand: You mention the Divalogues. I really enjoyed, and have watched it multiple times. Do you feel like you were able to get everything out?

Chante Moore: There was more that you didn’t really get to see. Because of the time, there was a lot more to be said. I feel like the theme and the vein we moved in, which was there’s hard times for all of us, and we’re human.  Even though we do something extraordinary for a living, we’re just human like you. We go through things that take us to the brink of depression, but we’re all triumphant and we overcome the negative things that happen to us.

Urban Grandstand: What can you say about your show, obviously without giving too much away?

Chante Moore: I’m doing songs from all of the albums. We’re going to have fun. No worries at all, and I’m singing as many songs as I can. 

[ON the SCREEN] TRACI BRAXTON: DESTINY FULFILLED

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We had the pleasure of catching up with Traci Braxton as she prepped for the return of Braxton Family Values this past week! We had a good talk with Traci, as she talked about the show, as well as her new album that she's been promoting and everything else going on in her life right now. Tracy's got some good things going, including the work she's doing with the United Negro College Fund and her efforts to spotlight Juvenile Rheumatoid Arthritis, the effects it has had on her family and her son being diagnosed, as well as how they have been able to conquer the disease. You're definitely in for a treat with this feature. 

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[On the Screen] Sierra Alston: She Got Game

We recently had the chance to chat with Sierra Alston, formerly of the reality show, She's Got Game!. Who would have thought that right after our conversation, she would exit the show in the midst of productions.

Not sure any of us saw that coming, Nevertheless, we had a pretty good conversation, and you can catch that interview below, right HERE at Urban Grandstand Digital!

[REALITY] Patrice Curry: The New Reality

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Just as the 4th season has recently ended for VH1's Basketball Wives, we had the opportunity of catching up with Patrice Curry. Curry joined the franchise this season, and as most know, is married to former NBA player Eddie Curry. Without a doubt, Patrice is perfect for our magazine and the message we often aim to push within our articles, interviews, and features. As the title suggests, she is defiantly giving us a new reality. With much of reality television today, and definitely the Basketball Wives franchise, there is an endless supply of drama delivered in each gut-punching episode. Clearly, it sells rather well, and there's a large number of people who are interested in that sort of thing. At the same time, there's an equal, if not larger, number of people who are interested in seeing something more. Frankly, the drama, fighting, high school name-calling, and all else becomes a bit tired after a while. I think that's what makes Patrice's story a little different, and a little more enjoyable. Obviously, she's had her own level of drama in her life over the years, but as you can sense in the few episodes we saw her in, along with reading our conversation, she's arrived at a place that doesn't require the negativity. She's in a happy place, and working to build multiple brands that will ultimately elevate her to greater heights. One would think that would be the goal for all parties involved, but that seemingly ends up not being the case most of the time. 

Patrice and I had an awesome conversation, and we talked about a variety of things, starting with this season of BBWLA, and leading into the many projects and ventures she and Eddie are tackling. We also talk about her ability to open up to the world about Eddie's infidelity, and how she was able to move forward and rebuild her marriage to what it is today. She gave is her reality, one that while there are other's who experience it, it's still new in the sense that she's bringing it to us with class. Continue scrolling down to read the full exclusive right here at Urban Grandstand Digital!

Urban Grandstand Digital: Thank you so much for your time. It’s nice to be able to catch up with you on so many levels. You’ve got a variety of things happening for you. I truly appreciate you today… There’s so many things I want to cover with you today. I especially want to talk about brand. It only makes sense for us to talk a little about BBW because right now, this is where many of your new fans and followers are seeing you. What we won’t do it get into the fights and things of that nature. We definitely like to stay on a trail of positivity. I think that at this stage of the game, you have a brand that you not only want to push, but more importantly maintain. Not even to knock the show in any way because it definitely has it’s entertainment value, but seeing the past seasons and the level of intensity regarding drama, what prompted you to take part in the series for the 4th season?

Patrice Curry: I honestly just wanted to be the change in what I was seeing. I was hoping that my presence would be enough for me to be there and interact with the ladies, while bringing something different to the show. That was my objective. I really did it because I am working on branding myself, and thought it would be a good platform for me to get started. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: I’ve looked at reality television in so many different ways, and my mindset has been the same in a sense. I felt it would be nice to have something different, in a way that deflects from the drama you see, and be that change. On the same token, did you feel people would take to that, or your personality?

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Patrice Curry: I think that I was hopeful. I have it to God, and talked to him about it. I felt like if it was supposed to be for me, then it would be for me. I can’t control the way people see me or perceive me, or even how they fell about me. I can only be myself, and hopeful that someone finds appreciation in that. My objective was to help another woman who was in a similar situation as me. I wish I had the help when I was going through it. It’s a tough situation, but I’m not the first woman to go through it, and I won’t be the last until society changes. I don’t know if it ever will. I was just trying to help someone else out by using my story to give them a boost and let them know you can get through anything. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: I think that’s true, and it’s good. A lot of people appreciate the way you were able to let people into your life and allow them to see your truth, regardless of what it was. The fact that you opened up and shared about the infidelity was major. How difficult was it for you to share it?

Patrice Curry: You know, at this stage in my life it wasn’t difficult to share it at all. There were times that I was filming and talking to the girls about things, and of course this was cut out, but there were times that I was crying in my talks, or feeling my pain on some levels and thinking of where I had come from and where I was. It has its ups and downs, but I knew I was using it to give God the glory and not just to get fame out of it. If someone can take from what I was saying and use it to get to the next level, that was my objective. I had a good response from people, and I feel like I did that. Even if it only touched one person, one is more than none. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: I would think it was equally as difficult bring the kids into the light, especially consider Eddie’s son who was obviously conceived through the infidelity. How do you feel this has affected him, and most importantly, do you think that it has helped in any way?

Patrice Curry: The kids weren’t around during the filming process much of the time. That part was showing that we are still a family. It was more fun stuff for them. They don’t deal with adult issues. We try to keep them out of grown folk’s business, so to speak. They are not affected in that way. They are big kids, and they do see television. They do ask questions, although Basketball Wives isn’t a show that I allow them to watch. It didn’t hurt them. They like the spotlight, and they had a good time. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: I think visibly, people saw that you weren’t involved in every episode. Was that intentional, or how did it play out regarding your involvement. 

Patrice Curry: When I started filming, I was supposed to be a full time cast member, and as it went on, my husband decided he didn’t want to do anymore. The show didn’t want me without him, so that’s how that worked out. I guess had I been more active, and more troublesome maybe, they would have felt differently. I feel like I’ve come a long way in life. I used to be a hot head, and I have worked hard to balance the out. I didn’t feel the need to go back. I didn’t really have anyone coming at me for it to be an issue. It’s hard to fight when there’s no-one fighting with you. I would have loved to be on longer to share more, because it’s a lot left out, but it is what it is. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: I think a lot of people appreciate the direction you came from. I know you’ve seen reality television, and you knew of BBW prior. The drama obviously sells, and a lot of people like it, but there’s an equal amount of people who want to see more than that. They want to see people capitalize the way they should, go to the next level, and build their brands. You’re showing people there’s more to reality TV and they’ve been able to see your true life. 

Patrice Curry: Oh, well that’s good. I’m glad to hear that. I was a little worried. Thing would come across in how I was perceived. I know it’s not for everybody. I am in no way promoting that if you’re being cheated on, staying in that relationship and working it out. That’s not what I’m saying, but we were both very young. We were both growing and learning. He was fresh out of high school and into the league. You can’t hold people hostage by their past when they have asked for forgiveness, and they are changed and being a better person. We had a lot of rocky times but we persevered. We got through it, and there were times I hated him and wasn’t bothered with him. We weren’t together going strong the entire time. I hope it didn’t come off the I was just at home twittling my thumbs while he did his thing. It was never that, but the heart wants what it wants. I believe that the fact I had children with this man meant I at least needed to put forth the effort to try and keep them as one, and keep us together. I don’t take marriage lightly. I tried to do what I could do and fight through it. If he were still the same, it would be a different story that you saw. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: Now in terms of the show, do you see yourself returning since it has been renewed?

Patrice Curry: I’m not coming back. He definitely does not want to return and I have to respect that. They don’t want me alone, so I won’t be back on the show. I am working on other things. A lot of me got list in the translation as far as the show went. I do a lot of things. I’m a very creative person. I write, and I have a children’s book. I’m currently translating to Spanish so I can market it to the hispanic community, who has a lot of the same issues as a lot of us, as far as losing a loved one. I’m writing another book, and my husband and I are writing a book together. I had a meeting last week with an entertainment company. We’re working on some TV shows that I’ve written. I’m working on getting things going. I’ve been a mother all this time, and my youngest just started attending school this year. I knew that once the show aired, I could hit the pavement running, and not have to worry about my children. That had a lot to do with why I wasn’t doing as much as I could. I felt like my responsibility was to raise my children and not have someone else doing it. My mother is deceased, so it’s not like I had her to help me. We’re in talks of doing our own reality series, being a family show that is something positive. There will be times of course, where the kids are arguing, or we’re arguing. It’s real life, so I’m sure there’s plenty of entertainment, but just not on a level where families can’t watch it together. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: That’s good. You obviously have a few shows like that and are more positive, but there’s a lot of room for more. There’s a lot of people who really want to see it. People will look forward to that. 

Patrice Curry: I’m excited about it. I haven’t told the kids yet. You tell them something, and they don’t stop talking about it. I’m excited though, and we’re ready to move forward. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: I’m glad you mention your other ventures, because you also do art. You have a lot of beautiful pieces the you’ve been putting on Instagram. Obviously, this is something you love doing and it speaks to you in a particular way, given the fact you don’t sell your artwork. In what way does it help you in relieving stress? Do you see yourself eventually selling them?

Patrice Curry: Well, I sold a few of them. It’s really hard to sell them though. I need to detach myself from them. My brother is a drummer her in LA. He and a friend of his made an album. It’s a 10-LP collection. I’m working on my tenth painting. We’re going to have an artist talk where we sit, invite a small amount of people, let them vibe off the music and talk about it. I like artsy stuff like that. Those images I will sell. I have about 10 that are like my personal ones, and maybe another 5 that I will sell as well. I’m working on it. I like them se much I don’t want to get rid of them, but I will. I just have to move forward with it. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: It shows the amount of talent you have. People who have seen it really love it. That’s why I questioned you selling them. U can understand and appreciate you not wanting to get rid of them because of how personal they become. 

Patrice Curry: Well, it’s time though. The whole point in the exhibit is for me to set the platform and begin selling them. I’m ready. I have one painting left. I sew also. I just went to Jesse Jackson’s birthday celebration last week, and the dress I wore there, I made it. Some of the things I filmed in I made. I like to walk in the room and look different. I don’t like following trends so to speak. We may body scrubs at home, and I do a lot of arts and crafts. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: I’m glad people see this side of you. It’s a great way to really step aside from the typical drama we see, and see the depth of you and your career. 

Patrice Curry: I agree. It’s going to happen. I’m working on it. I wish I could sing because i would be doing that too (laughing). For now, we’re doing our reality show. You’ll see how i train my daughters, and how I get on the boys about not doing all the things they could do to use their God-given talents to be greater. I definitely am trying to live by example when it comes to them. The point of moving forward with a lot of projects is I see my children are older now and they see me as an example. I’m trying to be a positive example for them and anyone who is looking. I’m looking forward to all of the doors that are opening, and I’m ready. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: Where can the world check you out online? Aside from social media, is there a website?

Patrice Curry: No. I need to work on that. My cousin was yelling at me the other day about it. I had one, but nobody was checking for me. I felt like it was a waste of time. I’m going to work on it again. Right now, I’m just on social media. Instagram and Twitter are @thepatricecurry. I’m on Facebook as Patrice Curry. That’s it. I don’t know how to use snapchat, so I can….

Urban Grandstand Digital: Social media has worked extremely well for you though. They serve the purpose for you. 

Patrice Curry: I appreciate the people who do check for me. I really do. It has grown since the show. I do a lot of talking about God and sharing what I learn at church for the week. Everyone doesn’t walk with that, But I feel like I’m doing what I’m supposed to. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: Are there any final comments, or words of encouragement that you want to offer?

Patrice Curry: I just want to tell everyone that God Got It, and don’t give up. What ever is supposed to be is going to be, and just keep pushing.

[ON the SCREEN][REALITY] TRACI BRAXTON: DESTINY FULFILLED

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We're overly-excited about the opportunity to spotlight Traci Braxton in this new issue of Urban Grand Digital with the new feature, Destiny Fullfilled. We're on the heels of the return of The Braxton's Family Values, and as huge as that is in itself, her story is so much bigger than that! It's a story of fulfillment indeed. We've watch for 4 years as her life has been put on public broadcast. We've seen the ups, the downs, and the in-between, as she has worked to define herself. She's worked to find her happiness, and in this moment, she's finally arriving at that place. One of her dreams has been to lead a successful recordings career, and with God's grace, she's finally achieved it. Her album, Crash & Burn, is her dream come true. She's also been able to use The Braxton's Family Values to build and strengthen her bin with her sisters, something that has been vital to her survival through the struggles. 

In our exclusive feature, she opens up about the show, her album, and her triumphs. She talks about her newfound opportunities as Ambassador of the United Negro College Fund, as well as her chance to spread the word about Juvenile Rheumatoid Arthritis, a disease that could have devastated get family, but has ultimately taught her so much and helped her family to grow and strengthen each other. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: Thank you so much for your time today. I've always wanted to talk to you and get your thoughts on different things.

Traci Braxton: Thank you so much for having me. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: There’s so much going on right now, with your album being out, and the return of The Braxton’s Family Values this week. It’s such a huge thing and it has o be overwhelming. How are you feeling in the midst of everything?

Traci Braxton: I am on cloud nine! The Braxton’s Family Values is still running, and everyone still wants to know what’s going on with our lives and what they can learn. Then there’s my album and me doing different things. i was named the Ambassador of United Negro College Fund. I’m very excited for that. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: I think that’s amazing. You don’t hear much about stuff like that and the media doesn’t put a lot of focus on it, but obviously this is something people need to know. Education is obviously so important. 

Traci Braxton: Yes. I’m so excited about that, and I’ve always worked with kids. I’m a senior counselor, and I have been for 15 years, I also worked at Oak Hill, which is a baby jail. I love working with kids. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: There’s smooch behind education, and being able to go to school. I did a story with Angela Robinson, who has also done some things with UNCF. It’s really amazing, but what was it that made you want to do this?

Traci Braxton: Making sure education is the very beginning of knowledge and wisdom. My son, I’ve been waiting him to go to college. He’s a young entrepreneur and he has vision, but I teach him that he still has to go to school. I hope it gets through to him that he still needs educational background to know what he’s talking about, so that he can be politically correct when he speaks. Then he can tell people why he opened his business, and why he is passionate about his business. The same thing goes with kids too. Anything they want to do in life, they need to go to school. Try it and see if it’s for you. Get some kind of knowledge. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: That’s been my thing. At least try it. There’s so many opportunities come because of being in school. Love the fact that you push this idea, and who cares what everyone else is doing in entertainment, school is still important. 

Traci Braxton: I think everybody needs to go away to college. At least go for that one semester. You will understand, either you’re going to learn, or you’re a party person. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: I like how you say go away. Almost like you’re saying get out of my house (laughing)

Traci Braxton: (laughing) Give the pad a break for a semester. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: Truthfully though, this topic just adds to your ability to relate to so many people. Of all of the sisters, I feel like you have been one of the more relatable figures. It’s not to shed any negativity on anyone, but I believe it’s because from the beginning, you’ve been very transparent. We know your struggles, and wanting to pursue entertainment but not being able to because of children and family. There’s so many people;e we know of, who would pick the fame route, and who have done so. To each their own, but I think it’s cool that we’ve seen that transparency in your struggles, and you have proven that you are just like us, Traci. You’re just like us. 

Traci Braxton: (laughing) I try to be. Thank you. I try to be, Lord Jesus. These people are trying it too. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: Do you get that a lot when you talk to people, and meet fans? Do they tell you that you’re really transparent, and relatable?

Traci Braxton: I get some that, and I get some people who say just anything out of their mouths. I bite ‘em right back (laughing). It’s real strange and odd. I know don’t know. I’ve been working for such a long time. No I didn’t have the fame., Yes, I was with the sisters on “The Good Life”, the very beginning before Toni branched out. I was with the sisters again, matter of fact, I was on “The Braxton’s” with “Who's the Boss”. I did co-write two songs on that album. That lets you know I was the4re. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: …and people need to know that. 

Traci Braxton: Yes, and when I wasn’t able to sign with the sisters, OK, I stayed with my profession, working with kids. I’m excited that people can relate to me. That’s all I’ve been doing is working my entire life, after I chose my family. So, it was something of the norm. I was from that same foundation, having both parents in the house, both of my parents being ministers, and working with the public. I fell back to what I knew. It wasn’t always singing and entertaining. That was being a productive citizen, having a family, and being working class. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: The one thing  lot of people like about your family on television is obviously you’re doing reality, so there will be drama in some sense, but they compare you to their families. I can even do so. I’m one of two kids, so I don’t have many siblings, but the overall premise in your family was support, and being their for each other. Sticking together. There’s so much support in the background. 

Traci Braxton: All families go through a lot of the same things. I’m glad we can touch people who deal with the same problems. OK, maybe I need to do it this way, or maybe I need to talk to my sister. Maybe I need to mend this relationship with my sisters or my siblings, or my parents. You only get one family and you don’t choose them. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: But how difficult is it to truly mend fences, you know, when things hit that level. Obviously, we’re all watching the show, and we see the things that happen and how it heats up. Surely we’ve seen this season’s trailer, and I’m like “oh my god”. 

Traci Braxton: (laughing)

Urban Grandstand Digital: (laughing) How do you come back from that? Is that difficult?

Traci Braxton: It can be very difficult because we all are head strong women. We got it from our momma (laughing), and sometimes, our opinions can get join the way of the healing and us being respectable to one another. During taping and things like that, we come to our senses, or we have someone to put us in our places. For us to get back together and mend the relationship after we argue, it makes our bond even closer. I’m glad we get back together, and say I apologize, I can’t believe I did that to you. Let’s start off new. Everybody knows our communication skills suck. We probably be mad for 5 episodes. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: But that goes back to the reliability. I feel like I made that word up (laughing). But it goes back to people being able to relate to you and you being transparent enough for them to see themselves in you. Communication is a big issue with everyone. Nobody communicates well, but you’re there for each other no matter what. You show that you can rise above it all. Even with your mom, the thing that connected your mom and my mom was when she told Tamar she was going to slap the piss out of her (laughing). 

Traci Braxton: Yes honey, she used to say that to us all the time. I was just like, I don’t want to wear no depends and smell pissy all day (laughing). Who wants to do that (laughing)

Urban Grandstand Digital: I was floored. That can be my mother all day long. 

Traci Braxton:  So you have an Evelyn, too. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: Yea, but moving away from the show, you’ve been able to parlay this into a music career. You were able to show that yes, you can do this too, and you’re able to put an album out there; a GOOD album, and so well with it. I listen to “Stay Sippin” with you and Raheem DeVaughn, and I’m just like this girl can hang with the best and the rest! What is that like for you with your OWN album out there now? Your OWN baby!

Traci Braxton: Ahh, it feels wonderful. I’m still on cloud nine. They still have me in the studio and I’m working on the second album. So, just to show my vocals. I don’t have to be all lavish or wear tennis shows. Sometimes i don’t have to wear tennis shoes all the time (I’m talking about doing a lot of runs on the track). Having a good R&B album and sticking to what you know. I’m not a spring chicken anymore. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: Well you look like one….

Traci Braxton: Thank you, but this woman is grown honey, and been drinking milk (laughing). It’s wonderful. I can finally say I don’t have a should have, could have, would have. I can check that off my bucket list. I’ve fulfilled my dream. I have Tank to thank, and my brother. The next single will be his song, “Perfect Timing”. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: That’s so awesome, because he’s truly amazing. He’s done so much work, even in the past for people like Aaliyah. People don’t get the feel of his depth and all that he does. It has to sit high in your heart to work with him. 

Traci Braxton: Right, and he worked with Toni also. I’m like wow! People I did not think I would work with so early in my music career, I’m like wow! He has that much faith in me and the fact that I can deliver. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: Will there be a video treatment?

Traci Braxton: I hope so. The record label is so tricky. They’ll say they’re going to dose things and then don’t do it. I didn’t even realize that would be the next single. I was trying to do “Holding On”. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: It’s almost like that middle child syndrome where there’s not a large amount of push put into it. You end up doing a lot yourself. I always say it’s better to be independent because although it’s a to of work, the reward comes stronger. It’s bothersome that it’s been out there, but a lot of people still don’t know. 

Traci Braxton: No, they don’t…

Urban Grandstand Digital: I think it’s unacceptable in a sense because of the amount of celebrity you have. There’s no reason for people to not know. 

Traci Braxton: Yes, the industry is so crazy. I have to say this: the younger generation doesn’t know enough about R&B music. It’s dead to them. When they get older, they not going to always pop their booty and do the nay-nay everyday. I do the nay-nay sometimes (laughing) but I’m just saying. They don’t know about Aretha Franklin, Whitney Houston, Melba Moore, Chanté Moore, and Tina Turner. They don’t know the foundation. They only know jump off music. That doesn’t last though. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: But you’re teaching people that. You’re showing what it is to have a good quality album. 

Traci Braxton: Yes! think about it. Normally, someone has a banging CD and people sleep on it. Then after 5 years, boom! It happens that way sometimes. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: Well I love Crash & Burn, I hope more people really learn about this because the songster great. We mentioned "Stay Sippin", and “Perfect Timing”, “Last Call” was awesome. The song “Reasons”, it really reminds me of the Tony Rich Project

Traci Braxton: Yes!

Urban Grandstand Digital: It reminds me of “Nobody Knows it But Me”. It’s colt have those references back to music that was out there and what we were able to enjoy, and now we relive it. 

Traci Braxton: I have to say this though! My brother wrote therefor Toni 15 years ago, and it never made it on her album. I asked him if I could have it, and he said I had to ask Toni. I talked to her, and you know, she helped me out through the whole process, changing certain things. I’m blessed thatch let me have that song. That was written 15 years ago. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: That shows the timeless quality of it. It’s a good song. 

Traci Braxton: It is! Timeless! I’m proud of my brother. It was for my mom and dad when they went through their divorce. Toni had it, but it never made it on the album. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: That makes it better because of how it resonates in the family. What are you most proud of with this album?

Traci Braxton: My emotion. How i was feeling while making this album. Passion is my favorite song. People think I’m talking about a love, or a man. I’m not. I’m talking about being alone in this passion, trying to get me voice heard, I’ve been waiting song and music to come to me for so long. I did not understand why it wasn’t coming to me. Why don’t you want me. Why am I not getting my gift? Singing this song filled my heart p. then boom, it comes to me. That is my favorite song. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: So before we finish up about the show, I want to bring to light what you do for the cause of Juvenile Rheumatoid Arthritis. Your son was diagnosed with it. Why was it important to champion this cause?

Traci Braxton: The reason I want to push this is that a lot of kids suffer from it. It is in the family of lupus. It comes back misdiagnosed all the time. They have high fevers, vomiting, and their joints bother them. Doctors call it growing pains, but it isn’t. They actually have screenings to look beyond the pains in their joints, and blood levels. It comes in the form of pain in their joints. They say give em Tylenol, or rest. It’s not just that. Sometimes kids have deformities, or bulging in their joints. It’s a painful disease. People need to be aware of it. You have to check up on that. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: It puts me in mind of the people who suffer from Sickle Cell Crises. 

Traci Braxton: Yes! Seeing my son, when he was younger, having to sit in cool water and putting rubbing alcohol on. Making sure he takes his medicine. Yesterday, I had to make sure he was taking his medicine because he doesn’t want to take it. Him being alienated in school, and not being able to sit in class. Teachers would complain about him getting up, but he has JRA. He can’t sit for extended periods or he stiffens up. The kid has to get up. Then the medicine dries them out, and they have to keep going to get water. They’ll put them in special needs classes, but they don’t need that. They can’t help it. It’s a to going on with these kids, and people, even teachers, have to study it. Sometimes you can mess up a kids education because you don’t understand. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: It’s a testament, though, to your hard work. Your son is older now, and has been able to maneuver through this life successfully, and is living a productive life. Will you speak more about this?

Traci Braxton: I do have some things scheduled. I love giving back. Just like “Women Below the Belt” with cancer, I can attest to that. I had cancer cells on my cervix. They had to remove that, I was pregnant during that time so they had to remove the fetus. People have to open their eyes and stop thinking it can’t happen to them or their family. No one is exempt to these things. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: Definitely. It’s good to have someone like you to speak on this, and show you can live a productive life. 

Traci Braxton: I try James. I try (laughing)

Urban Grandstand Digital: So closing up, what can everyone expect this season on The Braxton’s Family Values?

Traci Braxton: In so many words, I don’t know what’s happening Thursday. I’ll be watching it with you guys. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: It’d be nice if you guys could do something like what Mary Mary has done and watch it with us at the same time. 

Traci Braxton: OK, that’s a thought. You hear that networks? That would be a good thing. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: What what’s to be expected?

Traci Braxton: A lot of support. We argue with each other, but the support and love is there. I can’t tell you everything going on. It’s juicy. We’re trying to tell everybody. Stuff is about to be unveiled. 

Urban Grandstand Digital: I knew you wouldn’t give me too much, but I had to try. 

Traci Braxton: You gonna try your hand! James is going to try his hand (laughing). 

Urban Grandstand Digital: Thank you again, so much. You mentioned bucket list before. You have been one of those people on my bucket list to talk to. 

Traci Braxton: Really?

Urban Grandstand Digital: I love what you do, and I tend to look a little deeper. I’ve been looking these last three seasons, and I wonder mores “wow, how is she dealing with that”. I also like to be able to spotlight the causes that you’re working on. I could care less about the drama and things that go on because all families fight and argue. That’s reality. I like to be able to push the bigger cause.

Traci Braxton: Well thank you for having me and considering me.